Holiday Cheer

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Well, the day is here at last!

  
The final holiday of the year.  2008 is waning and the dreams for 2009 begin to emerge.  Now is the time when we gather together with family to express in words and deeds our thanks for those we love and who love us.  We can reunite with old companions that we have been separated from. bridges can be spanned, if only for this one day of the year.  I was lucky enough to have that yesterday.  I sat at the table and ate a meal with my brother for the first time in two years.  It was wonderful.  Even though we have nothing in common and we are light-years apart in age and experience, we were able to talk and laugh about mundane things for a few hours.  It was a nice, quiet family dinner.  My dad cooked (which means that the meal was beyond fabulous) and my kids made dessert - homemade gingerbread cookies.  They made the dough all by themselves without help from mom or dad.  And, of course, they were fabulous!  We cut them out in fun holiday shapes and dipped them in sugar before cooking them to nice and crispy in the oven (I, of course, did help with that part!!!).  After dinner we opened presents.  The kids received many fun items from their Grandpa.  
    
Evan got many sports items, including a baseball mitt and a soccer ball.  Lolys got art supplies including a paint by numbers kit and a comprehensive art bag with markers, pencils, and crayons.  They were both very happy.  Jesus received clothes - my dad always knows just what to buy him to make him look smashing!  I got an electric griddle - just what I wanted!  In fact, I had been eyeing the same griddle my dad gave me just two days before and I had said to Jesus that we should try to buy it during the after-Christmas sales.  It is almost eerie that my dad & I think so alike (and it happens all the time!).  I also got Beedle the Bard by J.K. Rowling, which Lolys, Evan & I nearly finished reading last night.  What a great little book!  It really does give a lot of insight into the final Harry Potter book and I can't wait to read The Deathly Hallows again.  Lolys and I are currently almost finished reading book 6 (The Half Blood Prince) for the third time.  We headed home fairly early from my dad's and the kids headed off to bed in a timely manner.  We had set up our little tree (thank you Tara) and put out some cookies and soymilk for Santa and some shredded carrots for the reindeer.  Jesus and I stayed up playing on the computers and watching a movie.  We set up Santa's gifts for in the morning before heading off to bed!  
Lolys was the first one up in the morning.  most kids would have run straight out to see what presents had been left for them, but not my daughter.  She came to cuddle with her dad & me in bed and wait for everyone to wake up.  Evan had come in during the night, so there we were all crowded together in my full sized bed like canned sardines! About eight we all woke up and headed out to see what Santa had left for us.  Evan received a delux roundhouse for his Thomas the Tank engine train set.  It hooks in with his train tracks and has stalls for the trains and a turntable.  It even has a place for batteries so it can peep-peep as the trains go in & out.  Lolys received more art supplies including a black spiral-bound sketchbook, a wooden easel with a drawer containing six graphite pencils, a charcoal pencil, and three erasers.  In addition she got a book of how to sketch cats and an origami set.  They both received books from mom & dad and one week at YMCA winter camp.  Finally, they received presents from their Uncle Randy, Aunt Vickie and their family (Uncle Owen, Uncle Joel, Aunt Tay, Uncle Bryan, & Aunt Megan).
                                          
Their favorite was the Snow-to-go - just add water and you get a powdery "snow" that doesn't melt!!!  We cooked breakfast (french toast) on the new griddle and watched The Polar Express.  I am currently gearing up to make tamales.  I will leave now with this happy thought . . . Happy Holidays to all those I love, whether you are near or far.  Please know that I am thinking about you and I wish you all the best in the year to come. 
P. S. Here are pictures of my kids with Santa:
                                                  

And here is a picture of me with my true love and the wedding ring he (finally) gave me:

(it only took ten years to get one!!!)

Dante's Inferno

Sunday, December 7, 2008

I totally called this before I took the test! LOL!!!

The Dante's Inferno Test has banished you to the Sixth Level of Hell - The City of Dis!
Here is how you matched up against all the levels:

LevelScore
Purgatory (Repenting Believers)Very Low
Level 1 - Limbo (Virtuous Non-Believers)High
Level 2 (Lustful)Moderate
Level 3 (Gluttonous)Moderate
Level 4 (Prodigal and Avaricious)Low
Level 5 (Wrathful and Gloomy)Moderate
Level 6 - The City of Dis (Heretics)Very High
Level 7 (Violent)High
Level 8- the Malebolge (Fraudulent, Malicious, Panderers)Moderate
Level 9 - Cocytus (Treacherous)Moderate

Take the Dante's Divine Comedy Inferno Test

I love these things!

A paper I am extremely proud of . . .

Thursday, December 4, 2008

So this post is going to be very long because I do not know how to upload this as a link. This paper was written for my multicultural health class. The assignment was to choose a culture and describe a medical condition that affects them; the paper had to include the etiology and treatment for the disease, the cultures understanding and treatment of the disease, barriers they may have to health care, and creating a culturally competent treatment plan. So here is my paper:

Death in the Absence of Belief
Caring for secular Americans with terminal cancer

America, it has been claimed in recent years, is a Christian Nation. This estimation is slightly at odds with the original view of America as a melting pot of people from all races and religions where religious freedom was desirable. According to the website of the Pew Research Forum, America’s religious breakdown is as follows: 52.2% Christian (all varied groups), 23.9% Catholic, 11.1% Secularist[1] (this includes Atheists, Agnostics, and those who refuse to give or do not have an answer), 5.8% religious but unaffiliated, 1.7% Mormon, 1.7% Jewish, 0.7% Buddhist, 0.7% Jehovah’s Witness, 0.6% Muslim, 0.4% Hindu, 1.2% other religions. Here we can see that the non-religious are the third largest religious group in America, yet they are one of the least understood. In fact, in the textbook for HPRF135 at San Jose State University Transcultural Health Care only mentions atheism three times, while agnosticism and other secular belief systems are not mentioned at all. Potter & Perry (2006) in Fundamentals of Nursing included a paragraph about the atheist/agnostic belief system in the chapter on Spiritual Health and emphasizes the need to respect this belief system, though it is noted that “traditionally, the manner in which spirituality has been assessed in health care settings is an interpretation of Judeo-Christian spirituality (Potter & Perry, p. 550).” In researching secular issues in medicine, there is a woeful lack of information, though religious and spiritual issues are well represented. This paper will discuss palliative and end of life care for secularists with terminal cancer.

Cancer is a serious medical problem for all Americans, and secularists are no exception. According to the National Cancer Institute website, “it is estimated that 1,437,180 men and women (745,180 men and 692,000 women) will be diagnosed with and 565,650 men and women will die of cancer of all sites in 2008.” Cancer crosses all racial, ethnic, and cultural boundaries. It affects all ages, from fetuses to centenarians. Cancer has been, and in many ways continues to be, the most feared disease among the populous. This stems from the fact that many people are uneducated about the how cancer develops, which varies depending on the site and cause of the cancer. Also, in the past, cancer was considered a death sentence. Research has yielded many answers over the past decades. Huether (2008) defines cancer as “a collection of many different diseases, all caused by an accumulation of genetic alterations (p. 222).” The American Cancer Society website reinforces this, noting that all cancers arise from damaged cellular DNA, which can be caused by any number of environmental factors including bacterial and viral infections, toxins such as tobacco, and others such as UVA & UVB rays. If the body fails to repair the damaged DNA or the immune system does not kill the cell, abnormal growth can occur. Cancerous growths present with certain genetic and physiological markers. Huether (2008) describes the physiological markers of cancerous growths as follows: rapid growth rate, invasion of surrounding tissue, transfer of mutated cells to unrelated tissues (metastasize), lack of normal cell differentiation (anaplastic), and rapid mitotic division (p. 223). No one intrinsic or extrinsic factor leads to the proliferation of cancer cells; instead cancerous tumor formation and metastazation is a result of a combination of genetic and environmental factors that allow for the mutation and growth of these abnormal cells. According the National Institute of Cancer website, prognosis (including probable disease progression and probability of treatment efficacy) is based on the type & location of the cancer, the stage of the disease (how much it has metastasized), and the grade of the tumor (based on the abnormality of the cells and how fast they replicate & spread). Medical staff will typically address the client in terms of their five year survival rate. Prognoses are subject to change based on the patient’s response to the treatment regimen and may indicate that the patient has a small chance of survival, even with treatment.

First it should be noted that there is no cure for cancer at this time. The goal for a patient who is diagnosed with cancer of any site is remission. There are a variety of regimens currently used in the treatment of cancer and their use is determined on a case-by-case basis with respect to the location, growth rate, and evidence-based treatment. According to the Stanford cancer research website, the most common therapies are chemotherapy regimens, radiation therapy, and tumor removal; although other treatments including experimental treatments are available. Often multiple therapies are used concurrently to increase the probability of putting the cancer into remission. However, when the cancer reaches an advanced stage where the detrimental effects of the treatment outweigh the possibility of remission, the patient may choose palliative care. This means that the patient has chosen to treat only the symptoms of the illness, with the understanding that these treatments will not result in remission. Lewis, et. al. (2007) states that palliative care is an active process that may continue for many years and often includes administration of analgesics to alleviate pain and comprehensive care for the patient’s emotional well-being. In some states, such as California, patients may use medical marijuana to treat symptoms of pain, nausea, and anorexia. This law was approved in 1996 and reaffirmed in 2004, despite contradicting Federal Controlled Substance laws. For most patients, opiates are the preferred medication for treatment of pain, though they often must be administered with a myriad of other medications (such as anti-emetics) to manage the side effects from the opiates. Care for the patient’s emotional health is a more complex issue and is entirely dependent on the patient’s cultural, spiritual, and religious practices.

For secularists, there is no mystery about the cause of this disease, nor are there any “magical” remedies for cancer. Quite the opposite is true; a secularist will likely receive the diagnosis of cancer, discuss treatment options with their physician, then seek out second and possibly third opinions before determining the correct course of treatment for them. This is because, for the secularist, knowledge is the first step to plotting any logical course. On www.nogodblog.com the question was posed regarding palliative care for atheists. Though there were differing opinions, the response was overwhelming that they would look for treatment as possible, but they would accept death as it approached. This is not to say that these individuals will not experience the myriad of emotions felt by religious people, they will simply fail to either blame or turn to a cosmic power to cope. Instead they are more likely to turn to knowledge and action. If their prognosis is poor, they are likely to lend themselves to experimental research & trial treatments if they are available. Whether their cancer is in the terminal stages or not, secularists are generally strong supporters of aggressive research. For example, stem cell research is widely supported by secularists because of the potential to develop new treatments and find true cures for cancer, not just treatments that effect remission. If there is nothing to be done, secularists are likey to focus on the quality of life rather than quantity. Smith-Stoner (2006) found that an overwhelming majority of atheists in her study would prefer physician-assisted suicide because it would allow them to die on their own terms and with dignity. `

This group can experience a variety of barriers to health care that may match the general barriers experienced by Americans including low socio-economic status, lack of education, and inaccessibility such as in rural settings. However, atheists may experience these barriers to a lesser degree than the general population due to higher levels of education and income, which often are indicators of increased access to adequate health care benefits. In fact, according to the Pew Research Forum, 35% of Secularists have a Bachelors Degree or higher[2] as opposed to 27% of the general population. With respect to income levels, 23% of Secularists earn more than $100,000 per year[3] as opposed to 18% of the general population.

One barrier to treatment for these individuals (and for all cancer patients) is the opposition to stem cell research by the dominant religious culture in the United States. The Secular Coalition of America patently supports all forms of stem cell research, including embryonic stem cell research, because stem cell research is likely to provide the key to curing many debilitating diseases and injuries. Sam Harris (2006) notes that there is no end to the good that stem cell research could do. Everything from Juvenile Diabetes to cancer, spinal cord injuries to Alzheimer’s could eventually be cured. Currently the government has blocked funding for certain types of stem cell research at the urging of the religious “right” in this country.

For secularist patients whose cancer is terminal, the most significant barrier to healthcare is likely to come when the healthcare provider attempts to address the spiritual health of the patient. Current research supports the importance of incorporating spiritual health for patients, particularly those with terminal illnesses. Janiszewska, et. al. (2008) found that spirituality significantly decreased anxiety in women with end-stage breast cancer. While spiritual discussions are often approached with trepidation by healthcare workers, with the majority of patients there is at least the mutual belief in a higher power to bridge the gaps between individual belief systems. This bridge is non-existent when the patient is a secularist. While some healthcare workers may seek to understand what comforts and gives hope and purpose to the secularist patient, most will find themselves flummoxed, leading them to giving inadequate spiritual care to the patient. Lewis, et. al. (2007) note that healthcare workers should not assume that because the patient is not religious means that they are not spiritual. One need only watch the passion with which biologist Richard Dawkins speaks about the elegance of the cell to see that secularists can indeed find purpose and meaning in the world around them. Chochinov & Cann (2005) note that spirituality can include a recognition or connection with “a reality greater than the self (p. 106).” Where secularist patients may require increased support is if their family is either unaware or unsupportive of their beliefs.

Secularists are an extremely diverse group with regard to their cultural patterns of communication. Generally speaking, men and women are seen as equal and are given equal voice in a relationship. The biggest cultural consideration for secularists is the family dynamic. Some secularists belong to a family group with a homogenous view point or they may have willingly and openly discussed their end of life wishes with their family, despite spiritual differences. However, this is generally not the case. Many secularists are part of a family group with very different views from the patient (be they Judeo-Christian, Muslim, or other). The family may or may not be aware of the belief system of the patient. This may cause serious distress for the patient as they make known their wishes for their after-life care. The health care team will need to support both the patient and the family to accept and plan to carry out the patient’s wishes.

How then could a health care team approach the care of a 28-year-old woman who has just received a diagnosis of Stage-IV metastatic breast cancer? She has been generally healthy her entire life; she exercises regularly and is a vegetarian. She has been married to the same man for nine years and they have two children, ages 4 and 8. She has been an atheist her entire adult life, though she was raised Catholic. Her husband is a life-long Catholic who is aware of her spiritual beliefs and is very respectful of them. The remainder of her family members belong to a variety of Christian denominations; including her father with whom she is very close, though she has never confided to him that she does not believe in a higher power.

Her prognosis is six months survival without treatment, and one year survival with treatment. She is currently hospitalized and under the care of her physician and the nursing staff. Assembly of a multi-disciplinary team to give optimal care to this patient is essential. There are three goals that must be met for this patient: the physical well-being of the patient, the emotional well-being of the patient, and the emotional well-being of the family. The physician holds the ultimate responsibility for the physical well-being of the patient, which involves thoroughly explaining all of her treatment options. Smith-Stoner (2006) emphasized the need for a two-pronged approach by the healthcare team to the emotional well-being of the patient and the family. First, the team must providing patient-centered care that involves completing a plan with the patient without a discussion of religion and encouraging the patient to make their wishes known by way of an advanced directive. Second, the team should provide family-centered care by aiding the family to connect with a religious provider who can help them to cope with the patient’s impending death and the patient’s choices for themselves.

The first priority of the nursing staff is to assess the patient’s emotional status and determine her progression through the stages of grief. Lewis, et. al. (2007) describes three models to determine the stages of grief which may be experienced by the patient and her family. The rational for this is that if the patient is in the stage of denial for example, she may not be cognitively competent to understand her treatment options and make decisions. It is the job of the team to assess the client and aid her to be prepared to discuss her treatment options with her physician. The patient may choose to undergo standard therapies, experimental therapies, or palliative care.

Regardless of her choice of treatment, her nurses play a central role in addressing the client’s spiritual health. Upon admission, patients are asked if they have a religious preference. In this patient’s chart it is simply stated “no religious affiliation.” As the nurse, it is essential to define what belief system the client ascribes to. According to Lewis (2007) the nurse can determine this information by approaching the client with an open mind. By asking open-ended, non-judgmental questions, the nurse can determine that the client is an atheist and what this means for her perspective on her current situation. A pitfall for the nurse at this stage would be to assume that because the client is an atheist, she is not spiritual or that she must be hopeless. Atheists find purpose in life and hope in many diverse ways and it is the nurse’s job to determine how the patient views these. The most important way the nurse can accomplish this is by listening. The nurse should also assess for spiritual distress. Carpenito-Moyer (2007) identifies “Spiritual Distress” and “Impaired Religiosity” as nursing diagnosis for terminal patients. The major defining characteristic of these is a disturbance of current belief system. This would be evidenced by confusion regarding her professed worldview. Even if she maintains her worldview and draws strength from her own belief & spirituality, she may experience a dilemma over whether she should now disclose her beliefs to her family. In addition, she may suffer anxiety related to decisions regarding choices for her treatment after passing – namely, should she allow a religious service or insist on a remembrance gathering. These are all questions where the interdisciplinary healthcare team can aid the patient.

Emotional care for the patient’s family will be essential. The nuclear family will require intervention by a family therapist and a grief counselor. The patient’s husband may benefit from introduction to community support groups. Special care should be taken to ensure that the patient’s children are informed and involved in the patient’s care to the extent that the patient desires. As for the extended family, enlisting the help of the chaplain may be a great benefit. Smith-Stoner (2008) notes that the chaplain can provide the family spiritual support without affecting the patient. The chaplain may also be able to intercede if the patient chooses to disclose her atheism. The chaplain can help the family to accept the patient’s beliefs and wishes for her future care.

When it has been determined by the physician that the patient has less than six months before they are likely to pass away, the patient should be referred to hospice care. Hospice care can provide the multi-disciplinary team required to aid the patient and their family to accept and prepare for the patient’s passing. In addition, they are best equipped to provide the patient as much quality of life and painlessness possible until they pass. In addition, hospice is typically an outpatient process, so the patient can be at home where she can be comfortable and in the care of her family. The most important emotional care needed for this patient will be providing her and her children care from a multi-disciplinary team including a grief counselor, therapist, and social worker to provide them a quality close to her life. It will be important to allow the patient to express her death to her children in language she feels is appropriate. For example, the patient may not want to tell her children that she is “going to a better place;” she may want to express it instead that she will “be alive in their hearts and memories.” The therapist can help her to define how she wishes to express her death to her children. This will be a painful emotional process and every effort should be made to reduce the patient’s anxiety prior to her passing and her children’s long-term emotional anguish.

The end of life is the most definitive moment for all people because it is the final step into the unknown. It is a highly emotional process and should not be marginalized for any group due to a lack of understanding. While there are many studies regarding spirituality (which is often equated with religiosity) at the end of life, there is still a huge void of information when discussing end of life care for persons without faith in a higher power.

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M., & Modlinska, A. (2008) The Religiousness as a Way of Coping with Anxiety in

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[1] This term will be used throughout to denote non-religious individuals, namely agnostics & atheists.

[2] Further breakdown is as follows: Atheists 214/509 (42%); Agnostics 355/825 (43%); secular unaffiliated 598/1995 (30%) =1167/3329 (35%)

[3] Further breakdown is as follows: Atheists 123/439 (28%); Agnostics 183/730 (25%); secular unaffiliated 354/1686 (21%) = 660/2855 (23%)



If you read this and wish to cite it for a paper you write that is fine. My name is S. K. Paez and the paper was written December 2, 2008. Please do not plagiarize my paper.

Recent Adventures

Friday, November 28, 2008




Well, November has been an exciting month for us. A few weeks ago my kids & I were lucky enough to visit my grandparents at their home in Sacramento. My aunt was also there and we were able to take some very nice walks down by the river and around the neighborhood. The kids enjoyed playing with my aunt's dog Rosie. We were able to stay for a few days and can't wait for school to be over so we can go back to visit again.

In addition, my family is setting out on a new odyssey - to purchase of our very first house! The picture below is us house-hunting! Finally there is a chance for us to do it, so we are jumping on the bandwagon. (Updates will be forthcoming.)

Thanksgiving was awesome. I spent all day cooking, which was excellent. I really love cooking, which is always amazing to me. The kids helped too. Lolys made cranberry orange sauce and stuffing. Evan made the mashed potatoes. They did a really great job too! It is always great to include them in the experience. They are really great cooks! My sister-in-law and her kids came over and my dad stopped by too! We chatted, watched the movie "Journey to the Center of the Earth" (an incredibly silly, but entertaining flick), and ate more than we should have! Dessert was the best part - apple & pumpkin pie and decaf coffee. We have so much food left over, I wish we could have Thanksgiving all over again just to finish some of it off!

I really love Thanksgiving for three reasons - 1. the main focus is food, 2. it is about celebrating how awesome being here today is, and 3. it is an entirely American and secular holiday! I was even happier (and thankful) for myself today after a knock on my door revealed my next door neighbor peddling her Jehovas Witness books. It has been about 2 years since the last time she gave one of these rediculous pamphlets to me. The front cover is bright red and asks the question "is the devil a real person". Luckily, I was able to excuse myself without being rude or laughing because I really did not want to hurt her feelings. I used to have a sign up in my front window that stated that we accept no soliciting (religious or otherwise), but the paper had gotten wet and the ink had run. I suppose I will have to reprint it and get it laminated so I can post it again.

At any rate, I am off to do something useful and finish writing my paper about kidney disease. With only about three weeks left in the semester, the crunch is on for me. I am glad to have a break from school and homework, I am sad that my semester in clinical is over. I am so grateful to have been working on the Oncology floor this semester. Each patient I have cared for has inspired and healed me and I can only hope that I have done the same for them.

Until next time!

After a long absence . . .

Monday, November 3, 2008

. . . I apologize profusely, but school & work & life have been kicking my butt!!! So I am going to keep this short & sweet:


VOTE TOMORROW!!!


I love you all
!

Crying

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

I have never had a radio news story make me cry before this morning, but I could not contain my tears while listening to the KGO810 report on housing evictions in the bay area. They were following sheriffs who's sole job has become evictions, which they must execute with alarming frequency. In fact, they estimate 100 per week and rising. Their job is thankless and heart wrenching, but they cannot allow themselves to feel the human feelings of compassion and understanding because they are there at behest of the bank - an entity which is not human & is, therefore, not subject to human feelings. It does not matter whether or not these individuals are to blame for their current situation because they signed a loan agreement that they could not afford; they are now paying the ultimate price. And where will they go, the officers do not know. Some will likely relocate with family members or to a local family homeless shelter - if they have openings. Many of them will find it difficult to find a place to rent due to their foreclosure history. The worst, however, is the people for whom hope is lost and they cannot fathom going on, like the man who the officers found had committed suicide in his living room rather than face his impending eviction.

My question is, how have we come to this? How have we as a nation moved so far from basic human compassion and hope that we the people silenly slip into the abyss while the government that is suppose to be by & for us holds up and defends those same entities that are leaving us to bleed out on the battlefield? I have no answer, only a dream of change and a slight kernel of hope that things may improve.

Why kids & politics DO mix!!!

Saturday, October 4, 2008

So today my daughter (age 9) asked me why we need a President. Since I never give the short "just because" answer, I proceeded to explain systems of government to her. We talked a bit about democracy (rule by the many), aristocracy (rule by the few), & theocracy (rule by the church). Then I asked her what she thought a monarchy was . .. to which she replied: rule by butterflies!

After much laughter, we decided to read the Constitution as a bedtime story!

Sick of seeing this political ad

Friday, October 3, 2008

I cannot tell you how sickened I am every time I see the "Yes on 8" ad. (this is in the State of California) For anyone not familiar with it, let me fill you in. In 2000, California voters passed Prop 22 defining marriage as a contract between heterosexual couples. After many rebellious events by the SF Mayor allowing homosexual marriage, many court cases were initiate, one of which reached the California Supreme Court. The court ruled that Prop 22 violated the equal protection clause of the Ca. Constitution. Now every couple is recognized equally under the law. Now Prop 8 is out to reverse the Court's decision by once again defining marriage as between a man & a woman. Despite the fact that I am against the principle of the Proposition, the ad that they are running is repulsive. It begins with the gloom and doom, evil judges imposing horror on California, blah blah blah. But then they trot out this expert who says that this law legislates people's personal beliefs and will cause discrimination law suits against churches, etc. It is a throw-back to post-Civil War Jim Crow tactics. And it is absolute idiocy. The legislature & the Court cannot Legislate BELIEFS. If an individual chooses to discriminate against others - that is their choice, but in this state all people have equal rights! After the Civil War, plenty of people were angry about the United States Government LEGISLATING that all men (despite the color of their skin) were equal citizens under the law. It did not matter that the law said it was so, it took more that 100 years for African-American's to be truly treated as equals; and some people still choose to hold onto their prejudices!

So I guess what I am trying to say is - it is WRONG to legislate and uphold inequality. People don't have to LIKE it or BELIEVE it, but they do have to RESPECT it!

So, any Californian who blunders across my blog, please VOTE NO ON 8!!!

Stop the witch-hunting of Nancy Pelosi

Monday, September 29, 2008

I have been watching CSPAN quite a bit today and I am utterly appalled over the negative stance being taken by House Republicans against Speaker Nancy Pelosi. I watched her entire speech and I found NOTHING partisan or poisoning about her speech. On the contrary, she reminded me of the reasons why I am grateful that she became Speaker of the House. She was a loud voice speaking up for the needs and concerns of the American people. The reality is that we are a month from an election where EVERY member of the House of Representatives (with the exception of the few who are retiring) will be campaigning for reelection. One-third of the Senate seats are up for reelection. This bill was so unpopular with constituants, does anyone really think that they would risk their political career on a bill that was hastily put together and backed by a government who's economic policys have been more inept that a kindergartener's? I don't believe it. In fact, this bill recieved a yea vote from less than 40% of Republicans and 60% of House Democrats! Among Representatives with highly contested seats, yea voting was 15% for Republicans and 25% for Democrats. For a full view fo the voting record check out: http://www.fivethirtyeight.com/2008/09/swing-district-congressmen-doomed.html

In addition, the American Government is currently almost ten trillion dollars in debt!!! The blank check handed to the Executive Branch by Congress has been grossly abused by this administration. For the party of fiscal conservitivism, they sure like to spend a lot! How could they honestly believe that we the people would just hand them a blank check again? This reason is precisely why we are a REPUBLIC not a democracy or a dictatorship. I believe that this could be a turning point in American Government where Congress can assert it back and bring a balance of power back to our government. I hope that it is so.

My thoughts on the Presidential Debate: Part Two

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Okay, I'm back for part two of my in-depth and expert analysis.

Question #5: What about Iran?
McCain: Iran could possibly maybe be a threat to Israel if they acquire/manufacture nuclear weapons. Basically, I ran getting nuclear weapons would set off a chain reaction that would result in the entire Middle East against poor defenseless disorganized Israel. To stop a second Holocaust the U.S. should come together with other democratic countries (but not the UN because they don't work since they allow the "bad" guys in) and crush Iran. This should be easy because they are "lousy." (his word, not mine) Also, we must sanction them to essentially starve them to submission. Any diplomatic negotiations must have preconditions.
Obama: Iran is a problem and houses terrorist organizations. He claims McCain wants to change legislation for the Iraqi occupation to include measures that would allow America to go to war with Iran. Unfortunately the war in Iraq has only made Iran & other middle East terrorist organizations stronger. Sanctions have not & will not work. While The U.S. must not allow Iran to acquire nuclear weapons, which could create serious problems in the region. Diplomacy must be the process with Iran, North Korea, Russia, and others. Isolation only increases these countries vigor in acquiring nuclear weapons. Preconditions must not be required for diplomatic conversations to occur, though there must be extensive forethought and planning.
My thoughts:This was by far their most interesting exchange. McCain seemed determined to show that he would hardline the issue and refuse to back down, negotiate, or otherwise be involved in any way with any country he deems an enemy. In addition, he seemed determined to show that Obama is inexperienced in foreign policy. His inability to do anything but say the same lines over & over again, his ineptitude at pronouncing the President of Iran's name, and his incomprehensible comparison between the heights of North and South Koreans gave the impression that he was the one who is lacking. Obama did not expound enough on his foreign policy ideas other than to say that the key to executing good foreign policy and relations is to be diplomatic. He seemed to imply that America should hold it's allies close, but negotiate firmly and openly with it's enemies. He did not falter, nor did he show any weakness in his foreign policy ideals. Both were weak on actually answering the question. Their spar over word choice and who-knows-Henry Kissinger-best were quite entertaining, though I was glad when Obama acted responsibly and put a quick and decisive halt to it.

Question #6: What about Russia?
Obama: They have been our ally for a while and we should approach them diplomatically with the help of the International community. We cannot go back to the Cold War, we must look forward. We must lift up fledgling democracies and allow them to assert themselves in the International community. The way to fix it is support democracy and decrease oil dependence. McCain consistently voted against developing alternate energy.
McCain: Read my lips: KGB. Russia has just been waiting like a spider to pounce, we have to inhibit the pouncing. He does not give a plan of what to do, but he says to watch the Ukraine for political breakdown. Others in the region will follow.
My thought: We,, I have to say that this one was relatively simple to work out. Obama has a plan - it is called diplomacy. McCain has a plan - it is called watch from behind a stone wall (and perhaps throw a few hand grenades! JK)

Umm - they bickered for a bit here about alternative energy and foreign & domestic oil production. They both really said nothing.

Question #7: Could there be another 9/11?
McCain: We are safer now then on 9/11. He was a part of the joint commission on 9/11, and he helped create the laws and saw many of them implemented. The govt has been drastically reorganized since then and because of that, the country is doing much better. The country has more to do, including increasing border security.
Obama: Some good changes have been made, but more are needed to make America safe. There are still problems with ports of entry, and now with nuclear weapons.
My thoughts: Neither really said anything, but to give them credit, they were almost out of time.

My thought overall: I guess what struck me the most was the non-verbal communication between McCain & Obama. Obama treated McCain with respect & deference. He often complimented or agreed with McCain when he made good points and respectfully contradicted him when he disagreed with McCain's point. But more than that, Obama faced often toward McCain and looked at him while he was speaking. He also often turned to look at McCain when addressing him, especially id Obama was contradicting McCain's point. McCain, on the other hand, did not turn to look at Obama once during the whole debate. In addition, McCain was often smiling and smirking sarcastically nearly every time Obama spoke. It was disgraceful the ungentlemanly conduct of Sen. McCain. I was already not fond of McCain because of his policies (which do not coincide with mine). When he chose Palin as a running mate, I shuddered. However, last night was the icing on the cake. No person can carry on successful foreign relations if they cannot keep their cool and show respect to those who are different. McCains is the WRONG person for the job. I hope other Independents saw what I saw and choose as I choose - to vote Obama '08!!!

My thoughts on the Presidential Debate: Part One

Friday, September 26, 2008

Well, the gloves have been thrown down. For the first debate, I must admit that it was, for the most part, well done. My personal opinion is that Barack Obama was much calmer, more respectful, and gave more substantiated viewpoints. I would like to go through question by question and give my thoughts.

Question #1: Where do you stand on the financial recovery plan?
Obama: Supports economic recovery so long as it is done with oversight, thoughtful planning, and protection for taxpayers & homeowners. He also noted that trickle-down economics do not work. Any economic plan must build from the working class up.
McCain: Thinks it is great that Republicans & Democrats are working together - that will fix the problem. (note - he did not answer the question or even remotely discuss any solutions.)
My thoughts: Obama gave a solid four part plan that supported economic stability coupled with fiscal responsibility. He also states an economic viewpoint that I believe - that trickle-down economics do not work. McCain blew a bunch of steam, but said nothing.

Question #2: same as question #1, since it was not fully addressed by either candidate
Obama: Cannot answer whether or not he will vote for the bill because it has not been written yet. Notes that any bill must include both short and long term solutions. Short term solutions include the current bill to financially prop up Wall Street. Long term solutions must come by changing the infrastructure to include oversight & regulation. There must be oversight that assures that working people are not getting worked over by those who can hire lobbyists. Focus should be on the working people.
McCain: Sure he'll vote for the bill. He saw this coming. They need to have accountability and those responsible for this debacle should resign. The problem is that Washington & Wall Street are greedy. He will hold people accountable for greedy behavior. He will do this by fixing the regulatory agencies that were not doing their jobs. American workers are the best in the world and their is nothing wrong with them, the problem is with the system, which he will fix. The right leadership (presumably his) will get America through this tough time.
My thoughts: McCain has a point that regulation & accountability are the key to preventing this problem from recurring; however vetoing every bill to come across his desk seems a little drastic. What about appropriations for social programs such as public schools, health care for the poor, and more? McCain also used this question to launch his first attack on Obama. I would also like to note that he said he would vote for the bill without having seen it. Obama, on the other hand, refused to commit to voting for or against the bill until after it is written. That seems to me to be a wise choice. In addition, Obama reiterated the need to refocus on what the govt can do for the people who are struggling.

Question #3: What would they do as President to lead us through this financial crisis?
McCain: He would get spending under control. To do this, he would eliminate earmarks & pork-barrel spending across the board by vetoing all spending bills to hit his desk. Accuses Obama of wasteful spending. Drives home the fact that wasteful Washington spending is the problem with the American economy. So basically, cut taxed & keep spending low is his recipe for economic success. Especially he wants to lower taxes on businesses to encourage them to keep their businesses here in America. For the American people, he wants to give tax cuts to allow them to purchase their own health care insurance.
Obama: Highlights the monetary difference between current earmarks ($18 billion) and McCain's proposed tax cuts ($300 billion). Obama would raise taxes only on the rich and cut taxes to the middle class and the working poor. This is the foundation for his bottom-up economic policy. He agreed that earmark reform is important, but he also wants to close the loopholes in the tax code that enables corporations to evade tax payments. He reiterated that the key was in the economic success of the middle class. With regard to McCain's health insurance tax cut, Obama accuses McCain of planning to tax health insurance coverage payments, which he says would effectively nullify the tax cut. He also stated that the current economic fiasco is evidence that deregulation does not solve problems, it creates them.
My thoughts: I feel that both candidates shared their viewpoints and took turns insulting each other's policies. Neither gave a good economic plan and neither answered the question. For me, Obama's ideas are more in line with my economic views.

Question #4: What spending will you give up as President in order to finance the bail-out?
Obama: He wants to spend on lots of important things: health care, energy Independence, education from preschool to college, & infrastructure. He states that he realizes that these will not be tackled all at once due to the financial crisis, but they will remain on the table and implemented as the become fiscally viable. In addition, he would support starting these programs by eliminating programs that do not work. He denied being ultra liberal, stating that he simply opposed bills proposed by the Bush Administration (which he stated that McCain himself had supported). He also noted (in response to a comment by McCain) that balancing the budget would require finesse ("you're using a hatchet when you need a scalpel") and he looked to the past (FDR in the Depression) for ideas of how to reestablish a strong government in a time of economic trouble.
McCain: He just wants to cut spending. Accused Obama of being too liberal. Advocated for elbow grease & a scrub brush to clean up all govt agencies. End subsidies & only take on fixed-contracts (So the price you settle on is the price you pay). Any wasteful spending should be killed. In fact, he promised to freeze all spending except on defense, veterans affairs, & entitlement programs (Social Security, Medicare, & Medicaid). He hinted that he wants to fund alternative energy. In addition, he went off on a long tangent about creating jobs by funding nuclear power plants. Again he reiterated that only programs he deems important should be funded. He said that taxes will stay lower if govt stays out of free markets - including heath care.
My thoughts: McCain's plan seemed broad, hazy, and fraught with the Bushian "trust me to do it right" attitude. Though I agree that wasteful spending needs to be kicked to the curb, absolute freeze of all spending will hurt a lot of people who depend on govt aid. In addition, McCain did not seem to be very solid on what he would spend money on. First he said complete freeze, then freeze on all but three things (all of which are currently big-spending, highly inefficient programs), and finally he swished in a maybe energy reform too. It seemed very wishy-washy and not well-though out. Obama did not change his position on spending. He stated that he wanted to curb wasteful programs to make way for new efficient ones. I think that Obama was very clearly thinking in the long-term, not in the short-term. To me, this is the planning necessary for a good leader.

Well, it is late, I will continue with part two tomorrow. Thank you for reading. Feel free to comment/criticize.

Starting a Blog

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Okay, so I have finally cracked! I am staring a blog! I think that this will be a good way to update people who care on what is going in my life. I am currently at home with the kids. My sister-in-law is over visiting and informing us all of her current persecution. At least it serves for a good laugh later. Other than that, I am studying for next week and watching "Becoming Jane."

Yesterday my kids and I attended Ohlone Day at Henry Cowell Redwoods State Park. It was great. We saw the dancers, made miniature Tule Boats, and met many interesting and generous people. Lolys was given a lovely hand-made Ohlone Regalia by the woman seated second from the right in the picture below. Lolys was very touched and has been inspired to join the local Azteca dancers as soon as her swimming schedule changes. Evan may follow along and become a dancer too! Until then, they will continue to concentrate on becoming the future Michael Phelpses!!!






As for me, school continues to kick my ass, but I am fighting back!!! I think that I may actually make it through this semester without a nervous breakdown (which would be a welcome change)! I have many events I am hoping to be able to attend this fall, including a seminar in October. I am also attempting to organize community outreach events for the Latino Student Nurses Association, since I have been elected their PR officer. Well, I am off to hit the books!